Make it happen

Blue Hope
3 min readJul 21, 2020

Do you really want something ? Are you sure?

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You want to get the job of your dreams?

Do the research. Find what makes the company tick. Or what they are missing. Show them that the missing piece is YOU.

Find the connection and help them solve a business problem. It does not have to be a big issue but show them YOU can find the solution when needed.

Go beyond the job description. Research thoroughly and find the hidden details. Convey this to the recruting manager so that they are intrigued by YOU.

Got a rejection? Use the frustration and pain to fuel additional skills development. Someone else will have a YOU with an even better skill set.

Put the right effort in for yourself and act now!

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You want to get the girl/guy of your dreams?

Make the first step. Fail and get rejected, then try again better. Learn to have empathy, to understand the other person and to listen. YOU can be charming without boasting or being Angelina Jolie or Brad Pitt.

Don’t go overboard the limit. Stop when someone says no, someone else will say yes later on.

Be bold, be outrageous, but be kind and generous. Don’t complain that no girl/guy notices you if you wait in a corner. To get noticed YOU need to work for it. Complaining is not work, it just consumes energy to create frustration.

Are you shy? Ask a friend to help you overcome that. Challenge yourself and do things beyond your comfort zone. Build self esteem and courage. We are all afraid of things, but we still do them. The introverted can step up too.

Put the right effort in for yourself and act now!

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You want to get the money?

You can play the loto or go to the casino and win the jackpot… Or most probably not!

Money can come under different forms: salary, side hustle, investments etc Choose what works best for YOU.

Become a part time freelancer and diversify your income streams.

Make money work for YOU so you do not have to work for money.

Learn personal finance, YOU can get free resources all over the internet, just choose one.

Get an expert advice on investments and put your money in a passive mode.

Put the right effort in for yourself and act now!

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You want to become famous?

Develop your skill: practice acting, singing, working out, writing, cooking, taking photos, tap dancing …
Find out about marketing, campaigning and selling techniques. You want to promote yourself, so do just that.

Continue to enrich yourself and become the best version YOU can be at any time.

Define your role models and study what they did right and what they did wrong. Find patterns and try to learn from them.

Put the right effort in for yourself and act now!

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Nothing comes cheap. Payment can come in the form of money, sweat, time, energy, social life and the list can go on. If you are not ready to give up something you will get nothing back. And only YOU can change anything and everything in your life.

Do not wait for it to happen, make it yourself!

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